SUICIDE??? ITIS NEVER AN ESCAPE!!!

One question is, why would anyone want to commit suicide? Several times I sit down and wonder where this whole idea of committing suicide originated from? Would it do anyone any good committing suicide? Why would you even think of Suicide?! Its Suicidal!!!!

You find yourself in life's low, never seem to be at the high, you've tried your best to find solace in alcohol and smokes, but still cant seem to hide, your problems are now like a scary movie you wouldn't even dare to see twice but it keeps occurring when you close your eyes and then you tell yourself this is it, this is the end :(  Then that small voice whispers to your senses, "why not end this life?" and you in your depression and desperation for an escape forget that AS LONG AS THERE IS LIFE, THERE IS HOPE and dare to rob yourself of life... But have you ever thought of what happens when you end your life yourself? Is it really an escape or just a transition to further torture and torment, this time even worse! We've seen movies where a person takes his/her own life and then wears a white garment to portray heaven i presume... Lie! biko don't be deceived! you only go from hell to hell when you take your life! so please be wise! be warned! don't fall a victim!  

 N.B. TIME HEALS EVERYTHING! NO MATTER THE DEGREE OF PAIN... IT DEFINITELY WOULD HEAL!!!
         PLEASE NOTE THAT WHATEVER IT IS YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH, YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST AND DEFINITELY WON'T BE THE LAST, PEOPLE HAVE GONE THROUGH SAME AND SURVIVED SO WHY FALL.

 YOUR LIFE IS NOT AND NEVER THE HARDEST, YOU ARE NOT HAVING THINGS MOST DIFFICULT SO BE APPRECIATIVE AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!

        LADIES! EVEN IF HE IS BRAD PITT OR TREY SONGZ, THERE;S NO GUY OUT THERE THAT IS WORTH YOUR TEARS, LET ALONE YOUR LIFE! HE CAN DO SO MUCH BUT NEVER TOO MUCH! 

       IF ITS YOURS THEN IT SURELY WILL BE YOURS! DON'T FORCE IT! DON'T FORCE ANYTHING!

     REMEMBER THAT NOBODY EVER HAS IT EASY, NOT EVEN THAT MAN OR WOMAN THAT YOU ENVY AND WISH YOU WERE...

      AVOID BEING DEPRESSED! STAY HAPPY ALWAYS! HAPPINESS IS A THING OF CHOICE AND YOURS SHOULDN'T BE TIED TO ANYBODY. LEARN TO STAY HAPPY ALWAYS!


                            A FULFILLED DAY

Here's what Lumi has to say about committing Suicide.......
"We all know life has its ups and downs,Some people face their problems alone and some have family and friends to support them but If you are thinking of suicide note that life is like a fairy tale, at first everything gets bad and messy It feels like Nothing can ever get better but in the end there is always that "HAPPY ENDING" (and for a happy ending to occur you must have a bad beginning) if shrEk Killed himself he wouldn't Have married Princess Fiona. 
Real life review: The present "special adviser to the governor" was once a F9|| student, he got admission into UNILAG engineering and failed,then he went to physics and still failed, he was then transferred to Sociology and Graduated with a 2.2gpa. If he killed himself when he was failing, He wouldn't be where he is Today and he is even doing better than 98% Of peeps that passed. Different materials have different breaking points and different humans Have their own breaking point. So it is very Normal to think of suicide But before you do, realize that:
You’re not alone; many of us have had suicidal thoughts at some point. Feeling suicidal is not a character defect and it doesn’t mean that you are crazy or weak. It only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. This pain seems overwhelming and permanent at the moment. But with time and support, you can overcome your problems and the pain and suicidal feelings will pass, Even people who feel as badly as you are feeling now,things got better for them. I know how inevitable the choice may seem but things do get better.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. PEOPLE OFTEN TURN TO SUICIDE BECAUSE THEY SEEK RELIEF FORGETTING THAT RELIEF IS A FEELING AND YOU CAN ONLY FEEL WHEN YOU ARE ALIVE. Remember that relief is a feeling And you have to be alive to feel it. You will not feel the relief if you are dead. My friend killed herself recently and you don't realize how devastating it is.Death is just so final and the scars she left behind may never heal..."

                         THE PERFECT GIFT FOR A LONG LASTED LOVE

SUICIDE IS NOT IT! IT NEVER IS! STAY ALIVE!!!!

God bless you all... Cheers!!











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PHYSICAL ATTRACTION (FEMALE) AND THE LEVEL OF DECENCY AFFILIATED by Lumi

Hi Beautiful People!, *clears throat* well well well, who would have thought that anything good could come out of Nazareth??? My son Lumi has got some brains in him but I'll reserve all my comments and allow y'all ladies to say it all! 

                          HAVE YOU HEARD ABOUT ANKARA BY SOARS?



So the topic this week is: "Physical Attraction (Female) And The Level of Decency Affiliated" I'm not judging and I'm also not perfect but Most girls today use their body parts as dp/avi because they believe its a way of attracting guys. Yes, They are actually right...most guys today would go for a girl that exposes her body more because they believe the lesser the self Respect/Value, The easier it is to get into the girls pant... Now what You girls fail to realize is that, Guys have evolved and guys have realized that
"When a girl gets Love she Is vulnerable to manipulation"
So Guys would give U love and attention just to get sex because they know that when a girl gets love, she is most likely to give sex(either to keep the love or because she is weak) Example: if you put a pic of your body on instagram and you get 100 likes That's:
100 guys that want to Fuck you, 100 thoughts on how they will fuck you, 100 Men less likely to marry You, 100 Mouths that will talk about you, 100 people less likely to see You as respectable or to put you in a respectable position.


                ANKARA BY SOARS  

The painful truth is NO "MAN" wants to marry a girl that like that, We "MEN" know that marriage is a life time partnership and marriage doesn't depend on physical attraction, You are just for fucks and guys would do anything to prove that they Love u because they want to fuck. Also, you think a guy is a maga for spending money just to get your body but you should realize that your body to him is now a product of service. In conclusion Pure water has more buyers than Bottled water and You should have self respect and self value as a woman. No guy asin NO guy at all would marry a slut or semi slut... 
 NB... you be please be informed that because guys are flocking around around doesn't mean you are happening or on top of the world, you've got to remember that the cheaper the product the higher the patronize! Lady know thy self! Cheers!

Please You can let us know your opinion on this matter, we would like to understand Your perspective. Cheer!!!

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HURT ME TOMORROW

Hey! look who's here???
*clears throat* yeah yeah its me Seyi! and I've got something to say
this one was inspired by Juliet and yes of course K'NAAN again.. Cheers! 


Now I was in a convo with Juliet about anger and how she controls hers and it went down like this ...

Me: What kind of things could get you angry?

Juliet: I hardly get angry, I can always control my anger

Me: and when you can't cos we all have elastic limits

Juliet: I spill but its rare, I always tell myself that anger lies in the bosom of fools

Me:  Hm!

Juliet:  I'm not a fool and that alone puts me in check

Me:   That's a good way to control your anger plus its biblical

Juliet: Outside being biblical, when we are angry, we misbehave, we do stupid things that ordinarily we wouldn't do! that's the foolishness!
         
                              LAZY HUMANS WANTED

  

juliet

 

 

        
Never put yourself in a place were you can be hurt
you can avoid being hurt yeah and if you can control your anger
you can avoid hurting people

Read this piece by K'NAAN, all the best!


This aint a good time
but when is it ever?
I know the perfect time
but baby that's never
so don't you dare leave me now
throw my heart on the ground
for tonight aint the night for sorrow
but you can hurt me tomorrow
okay its on you!

curled from HURT ME TOMORROW By K'NAAN

ANOTHER YEAR GONE...

Wow! how so fast time flies

or should I say how so fast 2012 flew?

So many didn't think 2012 would end

they thought the world would end!

Goals still were set,

goals were achieved

Babies were born,

People were lost

unions were blessed in holy matrimony

(to those still searching,the Lord is your muscles)

surprises sprung up from the unexpected

disappointments broke our hearts a few times

but we all are alive to read this :D

To those who met disappointment

be sure that it isn't the end of the world

there's a whole 2013 waiting for you to use up

work on your wrongs

explore your natural abilities

lay aside every unnecessary weights

and work towards perfection

Worry less about tomorrow

for it is always tomorrow in Australia :)

Never forget to laugh,

no matter how difficult life presents his situations.

Also be sure not to make people's life more difficult,

as life in itself presents enough stress and troubles for all.
When you keep looking and don't find no solutions,
close your eyes and see from the inside.
You'd always see more with your eyes close

Keep your priorities straight

don't let the SEEMING success of others put pressure on you.

Understand that activity is not necessarily Accomplishment

that person that you envy

just might be facing a whole lot than you are!

2013 loading...

Let's meet there!!! Cheers!!!

A Fulfilled Day...

A fulfilled day...
what could make a day fulfilled?
is it by the amount of tasks accomplished?
is a day fulfilled by the number of task achieved?
could it be by the number of incentives received?
how come so many persons end their day without fulfillment?
could it be that they set too high a standard for themselves?
or they measure the fulfillment of each day by what they get?
truth is everybody can have a fulfilled day everyday :)
if only we can change the basics for which our days are fulfilled.
Do what you can and leave what you cant
for no matter how hard you try,
there would always be something more to do.

 A fulfilled day should be measured more on the seeds we sow 
than the harvest we gather...
A fulfilled day should be measured more on how much we give
than our much we receive...
A fulfilled day should be measured more on the number of people
we put to smile than those that puts us to smile ...



so therefore set your sight and thoughts on bringing smile to someone each day
and fulfillment would not be far from your closet.
Love you all my readers
Cheers!!!